Love has never been defined and never will be.
We read novels about love without limitations, see movies about it on the big screen or TV, and that we can live happily ever after, but it’s not real life.
The fact of the matter is, our expectations are sometimes too high and the poor mate we choose can’t humanly live up to what our expectations are.
The word “grow up” is the key to this problem.
All couples have disagreements, lose their temper every so often, feel like they want to quit in the relationship and move on.
When we are young, love can be so magical or hurt to the very core of a person’s being and they feel like their life is over.
It is because of inexperience and, in youth one is learning.
Every heartbreak or every slight from another person you love helps you to become stronger and is a learning path as to what you really do want in a lifelong partner.
It ‘preps’ you for that one true love that I can promise you will meet in the future.
It’s a tough road sometimes, but we all have our disappointments and lost loves, but manage to live and forge on.
You will realize the guys or girls you ‘thought’ you loved really wasn’t love at all.